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Our Family and our Siberian Cat Adventures...
"Mom, I really want a
cat." My almost 9 yr. old was troubled and I thought he needed extra
support. He was virtually an only child, with a brother in his 20's living on
the other side of country. I was chronically ill and had
gotten
sicker. His grandmother who lives with us had been very sick and was slowly
recovering, and his dad had had life threatening surgical complications . His
only grandfather had died in the past year. He was having real problems in
school. The poor guy himself was sick. He needed some unconditional and healthy
love.
"Don't you think a dog would
be more fun?"
"No, I want a cat. And if I
got a dog I only want one of those big dog that pulls sleds."
Now, his older brother and I were
allergic to cats. But on the other hand his grandmother didn't want a dog in
the garden. I had already tried to talk to her once about getting Jamie a dog
and she had said unconditionally "NO!" And she had spent a lifetime
working
like
a dog herself to help get this family to where it is today (well educated !).
She deserves an old age where she can enjoy her garden the way she wants to.
Besides, Jamie's older brother is allergic to dogs too. We live where it gets
hot in the summer. Huskies don't seem like the right breed. And we' re still
allergic to cats. I forgot about all about the problem. That was just plain old
easier.
Jamie was still under lots of
stress. Tough times and more for him. I was sick enough I had to tell him I
couldn't take him to family camp this summer . School was hard for him.
"Mom, I really really want a cat of my own."
I used to do medical research. I
got on the net, and started searching for info about cat allergies. I knew of
treatment possibilities in the pipeline back when I was working. Maybe one of
them had panned out. Nope, a general search engine kept getting crudded up with
people talking about their Siberian cats. I shifted to PubMed and looked.
Sadly, no hope along either line I had known of, nor any new lines I hadn't
known of. One possibility had died completely, and one was still very
experimental. There was no way to get into clinical trials any time in the near
future.
So I went back to read what all
these folks had written about their Siberian cats. There were enough responses
that it was really impressive. I wasn't sure what to make of that, so I tried a
search on dog allergies. I got a few hits each for several breeds, but nothing
like this general outpouring for Siberian cats. I searched around til I found
the report from Indoor Biotechnologies. It's there, but it isn't all that
strong. (I've written a page explaining allergies and Siberians and current
state of knowledge - here
is the link to it) .
But my child stilled needed more
than I could supply. I looked for a cattery I could visit, and that his far-off
brother could visit. I found one his brother could get to with a two hour
drive. I never did find one I could get to, but I eventually got a small small
fur sample mailed to me. Taping it next to my nose didn't bother me. Taping it
next to my eyes didn't bother me .
Next was locating a kitten. I
looked for every cattery I could find. Problems here and there kept coming up.
Then the most wonderful thing happened ! Jamie's "Fairy Godmother"
beloved Aunt Janey said she would bring him a Siberian kitten from Eastern
Europe when she went there next. As she is an acclaimed international scholar specializing
in Eastern Europe, this would happen soon. She travels there a few times a
year.
Somehow
this escalated to a pair of breeding quality Siberian kittens chosen by a
veterinarian who is a friend of hers from Eastern Europe when she went in June
. An incredible gift! God bless her forever for this.
Getting the kittens took her
precious time when she was very busy. But they were adored by all who saw them,
and prompted others who had allergic grandchildren to get them kittens as well.
The circle of care expands. But bringing them back was a comedy of errors.
She had tickets for the kittens
from American Airlines, & a cat carrier we had bought her folded up in her
luggage. American stopped transporting cats after June 6 for fear of the belly
of the plane getting to hot over the hot tarmac. Her ticket went before June 6
but returned after. They refused to allow the little Siberian kittens in the
plane. When my husband called American to check and make sure there would be no
problems, they flagged her ticket that she had been told she could not take the
kittens home with her.
Warned, she went to Polish Air
with whom she was starting her return flight with two kittens and bought a
second set of tickets for them all the way to California. When Polish Air
finished their leg in Paris, the American agent told her to let the kittens go
in the middle of Charles de Gaulle Airport if she wanted to get on her plane
home. Fortunately our Janey is made of sterner stuff! Waving the confirmed
tickets in front of her, she eventually got transferred to a different airline
where the kittens had their own seat. They were so cute the stewardesses wanted
to walk the aisles with the little Siberian kittens on their shoulders, and
they were the hit of the plane. Of course.
So our Siberian kittens actually
had two sets of tickets paid to come to America. We never got our money back
from American for their first set of tickets!
We met her in San Francisco, a
tired slender woman holding a big box that we didn't recognize-a big box full
of love. (Not the cat carrier we had gotten! ) Inside were our two adorable
kittens: a beautiful black that felt like silk , and a golden kitty that shown
in the sun. Jamie was glowing with joy. We drove our tired wonderful Aunt Janey
home, and took our babies home. The kittens got loose in the van of course, but
caused no major hazard, and we loved getting to know them. We took them
upstairs where we had a cat box for them. They climbed into the litter
gratefully. I pulled the rags out of their carrier. Only then did I notice the
rags were clean. The poor kitties in there for over 24 hours had kept their
home clean and waited for a proper litter box. What good clean smart little
kitties they were!
They had just been seen by a vet,
but of course we took them to one too. Which vet? Well there was a board
certified feline specialist near us ( a relatively rare qualification). Clearly
the best I could find for Jamie's precious Siberian kittens. Inspected, they
were in perfect health. Tested, they were indeed FIV and FLV negative, just as
had been promised. Gorgeous healthy kitties.
What to feed them? The vet said
only name brand food kitten for the dry food . I pressed him harder and made
him name the brands he considered acceptable , and wrote them down. Then like
the thrifty Scotch woman I am, I chose the cheapest. Cats are obligate
carnivores, so a (far away) friend who is a vet tech coached me to choose wet
food with the highest amount of meat or fish without byproducts. My poor
husband patiently read every single can of cat food in the whole store. Well
maybe not every can, but every type, including every different flavor. A good
thing - it turns out white fish with gravy has a very different amount of meat
by products than white fish and tuna in the same brand. But there were only two
cans in the whole store that had meat and fish only as the first two
ingredients. We found them after a half hour of can reading.
Our little Siberian kittens both
learned rapidly they were Jamie's kittens. They loved Jamie wholeheartedly, and
would follow Jamie from room to room, miaowing at a closed door if he went
behind it. When he left for school in the morning, they followed him to the
door, then ran to the window to watch him walk down the porch steps and out the
yard. They ran to greet him when he returned. They both slept under the covers
with him at night, usually one against his back and one in his arms.
Jamie loved both of his kitties,
but for some reason he bonded quickly and tightly with Ginevra. Maybe it was
because after observing them for the first day, I commented that she was a
"little kitty genius". She was the
smartest
kitten I had ever seen, and it was obvious right away. She learned her
boundaries instantly, found the easiest way up to his high bed when it
was
past her jumping strength, and in all things seemed to take only a minute to
understand. However, understanding and compliance are two different things .
She complies with exactly as much as she wants to or has to, nothing else.
She is incredibly playful, and
rapidly taught Jamie her favorite game. She loves to play fetch. Not with the
catnip mice or the little soft balls. Those are hers to play with on the
skidding hardwood floors alone. What she
wants
Jamie for is her special toy. Rubber bands. She wants him to shoot a rubber
band, nice and hard across the hardwood floors so she can fling herself across
them, skid hard into the stairs or beyond and grab it to run back to him.
Fortunately Jamie is a good learner. For Ginevra at least.
In return she is a good learner
for him. Not for me, as you will see below, but for him. He tends to pick her
up like a baby when he comes home from school and stick his face in her belly
fur to "meld". I don't know where he learned that word. He doesn't
watch Star Trek, he doesn't even watch TV. When he is upset about anything, he
runs to her to meld. One day he was sent home from school. I called him to the
family room to talk to me. I was being gentle but he was so upset he could
hardly speak as he sat on a barstool facing me. Ginevra came running from a
different room, climbed on the barstool next to him, and for a rare occasion
(first?) miaowed insistently at him, till he picked her up and buried his face
in her. She knew what he needed.
Imagine his surprise when shedding
season arrived and he looked up from melding to say, "Mom, my mouth is
full of hair!!" I informed him that for a change, he would have to comb
his cats, until the end of the shedding season.
When I was younger, I had cats in
spite of the allergies and just took allergy medicine and lived with the
annoying symptoms. (I can no longer do this.) I've loved cats a long time and
had several. Our Siberian cats are definitely the smartest I've ever known. We
taught both of them to use the toilet. I loved it, just flush if it smells bad.
Ginevra however, after demonstrating perfect ability, decided she didn't like
this, and chose the corner behind our clawfoot bathtub. She won, no contest.
For Jamie, she would do anything, but this clearly was pleasing me, not Jamie.
Why bother.
Rubber bands are still a great
favorite of hers. She will search a wastebasket if she has seen someone open a
newspaper near it. She knows where rubber bands come from. When her first
kittens were small, Jamie found a giant rubber band and gave it to her. She
adored it, thought it the most wonderful toy she had ever been given. She kept
it in the nest with her kittens, and would tuck it back in after she had it out
to play. She has trained her kittens to play with rubber bands also, but not as
vigilantly as she does.
Sunshine, is not only smart, but
has the cat world's biggest superego. He was not only faithful about using the
toilet, but stops any behavior for a " No Sunshine". This includes
spraying in the house, amazing for an unaltered male cat. Thank heavens! It
even extends to approaching Ginevra when she is in heat. Poor kitty, he is so
confused as she flaunts herself at him and we are running to separate them. But
her only break between pregnancies will be
because
we can stop him with a word. Now that they have identified that for some
unknown reason we don't want them to do what comes naturally, they head for
another room trying to do this without ever letting us know she is in heat . (I
said they were smart!) It's going to be a challenge, but so far we are ahead on
this one.
Ginevra is a sultry thing, though.
She comes in heat every few days in warm weather when we aren't breeding her.
As I followed one of those escapades, intent on putting one of them in Jamie's
room, I saw her stalking him, and him backing away guiltily. She advanced tail
up, he retreated. She advanced , he retreated. The true meaning of femme fatale
was displayed here in action , and never was one so sultry. And there he was,
striving to back away as tail up, she flaunted herself. He REALLY TRIES to be a
good kitty.
Sunshine's true name could have
been adventure kitty when he was little. First he tried a heroic jump while
still a little guy from our first landing three feet up and four feet over onto
our hard wood floor and went skidding . As small kittens we kept them upstairs
with a 30" wall at the stair rail . Next Sunshine jumped over this onto
the carpeted landing 9 feet below, then onto the hardwood floor 12 feet below.
It terrified all of us, but he got up from hitting his chin in the landing and
walked away apparently unhurt . We decided it was time to not have that wall
any more. My anxiety level was too high, even if his wasn't.
Like
Ginevra, he was very playful. While her favorite special toy was a rubber band,
his was a balloon. We had a five-foot scratching post in the center of the
living room when they were kittens. When Jamie brought home a mylar balloon
with a bell at the bottom of the string to hold it down, and left it in the
living room it would usually drift vaguely near the scratching post. Sunshine
would run blithely to the top of the scratching post, lean waaay out to reach
the string with a paw and snag it in to where he could grab it next to the
mylar in his teeth, then run down to the floor to play with his balloon. It was
unfailingly amusing to me. What an amazing kitten!
Later as a big cat he had one
last, unexpected adventure, which shook me up. Lying on Jamie's window ledge
against the screen, the screen fell out. Jamie came running past me, yelling
"Sunshine fell out!" Sure enough there he was in the front yard, with
the window screen. Amazingly appearing unhurt, with a soft un-tender belly and
no tender bones, he walked and behaved normally. But mom wants all the windows
opened at the top now.
Now his adventures are confined to
leaping onto the highest piece of furniture in the house (8 foot Irish
bookcase) or sneaking out the front door where he freezes on the porch for us
to pick him up. Other than that he is the most nurturing cat I have known. When
Jamie excludes Sunshine in his wholehearted adoration of Ginevra, Sunshine
comes to me and cuddles, lying on my shoulder while I use my laptop. This has
wonderful side benefits. When I needed hot packs on my shoulder, he came and just
lay there. Best hot pack I' ve ever had. Ginevra will come running to Jamie
when he is upset, but Sunshine knows when I am hurting if I don't make a sound
and comes to lie down with me.
The spring that Jamie's Siberian
cats were a year old, I had substantial medical problems and was at home and in
pain. Jamie had medical problems too . We hadn't intended to breed immediately,
but Jamie was sick, crying about his stomach hurting, and vomiting. Ginevra
came into heat, and Sunshine was mounting her. I could run after Jamie as he
headed for the bathroom, or run after the cats. For better or for worse, I
chose Jamie.
So it was that spring that we had
our first litter of tiny Siberian kittens. They were born in a delivery box in
our living room with Jamie and I watching . Ginevra oblingly waited silently
until 7 a.m. to go into labor, then would not stop talking about the
excitement. She really wanted to deliver in out downstairs closet and was quite
upset when we talked her out of that, by sealing off both the doors, and the
usual open access point. Then she was willing to consider the box we had
prepared for her. It was the right size, lined with newspaper as directed.
Unfortunately, I had misread (a little brainfog here) the direction that said
"Allow her to shred the newspaper if she will." and somehow thought
it said "Shred the newspaper." We had prepared two large cans of
handshredded newspaper. Initially it was nice and soft, but when she started to
have discharge and blood, it clung to everything . First we pulled out wet
piece by wet piece of shredded newspaper sticking to her. Then I finally
thought to check the book. I was almost too
embarrassed
to fess up to Jamie. But it was necessary, so I explained. We got rid of all
that shredded newspaper, and got non-shredded newspaper for Ginevra that
wouldn't stick to Ginevra's moist hindquarters. She delivered all her kittens
in excellent health by 10:05, allowing Jamie to make it school in time for
morning recess.
Jamie
and I watched them being born together. We watched them constantly first two
days to make sure they were gaining weight and warm enough and breathing okay.
By day their third day, the kittens and Ginevra were ready to
be
moved from their delivery suite to their nest, a cat carrier next to a basket
where we could bring them out for inspection. I wanted them in a basket where
we could see them all the time, but Ginevra disagreed with me. When we put them
there she had hysterics and tried to move them into deep cover. She was
satisfied with her familiar cat carrier instead, until a visitor tried to
handle the kittens. Then she snuck into our bedroom when we
were
in the tub. She is normally not allowed there, and we spotted her as we got
out, and chased her out. At 5:30 the next morning my sleepy husband exited our
bedroom to have Ginevra charge between his legs to get in. This
prompted
some thinking. "Henri, count the kittens," I called. There was only
one in the kitten nest. Sure enough deep in our closet the rest of the kittens
had spent the night without momma, and so quietly that they never woke us.
We watched with delight when they
could finally open their eyes. Then we
waited
impatiently for each new trick. We learned each kitten's personality as they
struggled to get out of the nest into the kitten basket, and then out
of
the basket into the living room. Who is the great explorer, who likes Jamie
best, who likes me best, who is cuddliest, who is gentlest, who is most
playful. What a delight to find this out.
There was the moment a litter box
became living room furnishings. Fortunately it only took a word to teach
Ginevra and Sunshine they were not
allowed
to use the luxuriously located new litter box, but still had to truck off to
the old one. Then suddenly there were kittens all over the house. No confining
them could be done. Well at least the litter box could be moved out of the
living room. I went and bought a playpen for future litters.
I've
learned a lesson here. Each of us spent all the time we could with the new
kittens. Jamie begged to sleep in the living room to be with his kittens.
Sunshine was totally bemused with
that litter of kittens. At first he was not sure what to do except peek
wistfully into the nest. He would peer into the nest, then stick a paw in. When
the tiny kittens grew to two weeks old, we were taking them out of the nest
regularly. This drove Ginevra crazy if they all were out of the nest,
especially when one tried to crawl away from
the
others. When they were together and she could keep them rounded up tight , it
was mostly okay, but when one crawled away, then mewed, she was torn between
staying with group or responding to the mewer. Sunshine solved her problem by
going to the mewer all alone and licking it until it quieted and someone made
sure it was back with the rest. After that he would sneak in the nest with them
occasionally to cuddle when Ginevra was away. He would look up guiltily as if
not sure it was okay, but Ginevra never chased him out . The kittens all like
to cuddle to him as well as their momma. My husband says human dads could stand
to learn from him.
For
a sick at home mom with a sick kid, this whole thing had been a wonderful
experience to fill my days, and my active octogenarian mother's as well.
Petting and playing with them, or being terrorized by them as they grew strong
and came bounding by. The joy these little furballs have brought us is worth
quite a handful of pills, as they run my life. I've gone from
holding
a kitten to being used as a resting place for a cat's rear end, or my hair as a
toy, overnight. My older son's girlfriend said in despair "Cats rule this
house!" He corrected her more happily: "Cats rule!"
Uh oh, with all my medical
problems dominating my life this spring, I forgot to register as a cattery, get
a website, or start advertising. Oh well, here goes! At last the kittens are
registered, vetted, and shot. I do NOT forget health. Here is the link to the brand new
TICA registered cattery. I've got to sell my kitties so I can have more.
These are the girls I never got to have, but I want to have more in six months!
What an amazing process.
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